We list what we have done and try not to rationalize our actions. Do with with someone who has also answered the questions already if in the program--your Toggle navigation M icrolinkinc.
It is unfair to expendtime with someone who does not want it when that time could be offered tosomeone who does want it.
Pg Referringto our list, put an x or in the box thatapplies. Use a? Enterall the names and fill in the boxes.
Save the discussion of details for step 5. Thesponsor usually writes the 4 th Step Inventory; the newcomer speaks. Thereare three parts to the 4 th step. Second, the Fears. Third, the Harms , including sex and financialharms. This is what the founders focused on. Thendo the AffectsMy: Rows b-f. Rows 1a--f apply to resentmentsonly. It is not necessary to ask these questions for the fears and harms. Start on 3 Selfishness …and work down to 16 Sexual Selfishness for every person, including those listed forResentments or Fears.
Our inventory is left open for future additions. Self centered thinkingseparates us from others. This isspiritual sickness. The founders showed us that thoughts of self block us from aspiritual experience. Read page to lead into the Step 5discussion. Many sponsors share intimately about themselves as well. DiscussResentments : We are looking for ' causes and conditions.
Discuss the Resentment with the intention of discovering where we wereat fault, disregarding the other person entirely. We can only sweep up our sideof the street. Re-read pg When done Read page 75 thenthe first 5 steps. A fluid string of events. Of course, it can be helpful for a newcomer to come back tothis step after the initial step work has been done and take a full hour toreview the Moral Inventory as it says in the Big Book.
We see the damage of self here in our 4 th and 5 th steps. Stepwork can be divided into two sections at this point if needed. Plan to discuss theamends before and after they are made. Step Nine is an ongoing process. The oneswith the most marks to the left of them are the assets that can be worked on inthe 10 th step and prayed for in the 11 th Step. The corresponding Asset to selfishness is selflessness. We canhighlight this asset and work on it in 10 and Step Ten is for dailyinventory and to stay current on new issues.
The 10 th Step becomes our workhorse step all throughoutthe day. We use it to become vividlyaware of our shortcomings and assets. This helps us utilize ourstrengths and stop hurting others with self centered thinking. There is no self when fully present inthis moment. Pray and Meditate everymorning and every night. Pray for help with the assets and shortcomings youfound in your 4 th and 10 th step work.
The 11 th step can be taken a. Some people use The 24 Hours a Day book or some relevant spiritualmaterial. Others find formal meditation practice helpful. Is it Angry? Is it Selfish? Is it Dishonest? Is this really self will indisguise? Is itFearful? Love, Purity, Unselfishness and Honesty can be used here as well. Bob took Clarence Sthrough the steps in hours. Then you have this message tocarry to others. There is no message unless you have done the first 9 Steps andare living the last three.
You can't give what you don't have. You mustpractice these principles in ALL your affairs. Now it is your responsibility to give this message to others as you havereceived it. Not changed, watered down, or how others may want it in theirlives. I wouldnt recommend anyone try and work the steps on their own without a e may do things a little is to say which way is wrong and which way is sponsor has me working.
I ve been really working on Step 3 Trust in God, over the last few weeks. The only way to be successful in working Step Two is to actually begin accepting the help you need. Toshiba How-To, Connecting to a Wi-Fi network using Windows 7 Need help connecting your computer to a wireless network at home or on the road? This is good for everyone who breathes air on planet Earth. If we could get clean with a white book and a dictionary when I showed up in meetings, other addicts seeking recovery, who really want what we have to offer, can recover with the NA Step Working Guide.
Narcotics Anonymous is a WE program not a me program. You may continue to make things work and, therefore, be part of the sickness.
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